Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Selah's Birthday Wish List/ Gift Guide

Her wishlist can be found here

 Diaper: Size 4
Clothes: 12 mths or 18 mths.  She's low on onesies.  
Shoes: Size 3 or 4
And she loves toys that annoy Mom and Dad!  :) 

Please don't feel obligated to buy her anything.  I'm just trying to make it easier on those who want to.  I only post this because I know I have a hard time buying gifts for others. 

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

ife lesson meant for a 4 year old

Today a friend came by to drop something off.  While she and I were chatting it up, her son and daughter started fighting over a toy.  My friend pulled her daughter away for a quick talkin' to.  She told her daughter, "you know, just because he doesn't want to play with it your way, doesn't make it wrong.  He can play with it however he wants to."  Hmmm, I wish someone had taught me this before I got married. 

It's been a hard lesson to learn for this gal.  I think doing dishes my way is more efficient and cleaner which makes it the best, duh.  Which means, doing it your way is just plain wrong.  Why wouldn't you want to do it the best way?  Or why would you take that route when it's obviously easier and quicker to take MY route which has already been tested and determined by me as being the best?!  Lately, I've found myself wanting to impose my way on others a lot, not just with my husband.  Sorry Louis, I'm trying, I promise! 

Breastfeeding is OBVIOUSLY best and I don't understand why you don't see that.  This is the BEST method for sleep training and prayer and decluttering, I've tried it myself and I know that it works, even for you too.  Sigh.  I have good intentions and I'm trying to not be pushy.  But it's hard because I want to help.  So I'm learning, put your two cents out there, and if they take it, give yourself a pat on the back and a 'I KNEW IT would work for you!' be grateful that you were able to help them.  And if they don't, hope and pray that they find something that will. 

Anyone else learning anything lately? 

Saturday, May 7, 2011

2 things

1st- I just sewed on my very first button.  As a 25 year old.  It was for Selah's dress.  That doesn't fit her anymore.  But that's beside the point.  I'm kinda proud of myself people!  Lame I know, but no one's ever taught me how to sew before so even this I had to figure out on my own. 

2nd- I meant to blog about this the other day in my recap but I forgot.  We've been hanging fly paper around the house to catch some fruit flies.  Selah had crumbs all over her so rather than vacuum, I took her over to the kitchen sink to dust her off.  The sticky fly paper got stuck in her hair!  Freak-out-moment as I gingerly pulled the paper out of her hair and took her to the bathroom to wash it out.  I shampooed her hair in the sink, clothes on and all trying to get it out!  No luck.  In fact, I made it worse because now it was sticking to all of her hair and it was getting all matted down.  I was thinking I was gonna have to shave her head to get the mess out.  Next, I tried conditioner thinking it would make it slick or something and come out?  That didn't work either.  Finally, I used hand soap just out of despair.  It was better but still slightly sticky.  I combed her hair, pulling gently which she found to be rather funny actually.  I was able to get most of it.  Her hair looks fine now, sticking up like always. 

Friday, May 6, 2011

First week of May/ 2011

This week's recap

Monday- Had to work because an employee's son was sick.  Mom came to keep Selah for a couple of hours.  Selah's such a wiggle worm, she's crawling and pulling up on everything.  My mom said, "She crawled all over me, it was like I wasn't even there."  Lol. 

Tuesday- Went to friends and had a lovely dinner.  Made this. 

Wednesday- Took Selah for her 9 mth checkup, her Dr. is concerned about her weight, prompting us to get some blood work done.  Went to visit my Mama for Mother's day.  My sister and I got her this.
  
Isn't it purdy?!  Yummy too.

Her newest thing is Cajun food.  Her etouffee was amazing.  I didn't care for the gumbo too much, but I don't really have a good basis of comparison.  She also made calas, sauteed crab, crawfish and bread pudding.  She also bought me some new shirts just because and a high chair to keep at her house. 

Thursday- Went to the lab to get Selah's blood drawn.  They put a tourniquet on her to see if a vein would pop up to draw blood from her arm.  This made me REALLY anxious.  I had no idea how I was gonna hold her down so they could stick that needle in her arm.  The technician couldn't find a good vein so they ended up taking it from her finger.  They pricked her and continually squeezed her finger trying to get this tube to fill up with blood.  It took forever of course trying to fill up this tube droplet by droplet.  She screamed for the entire 10-15 minutes.  Felt like hours, I felt so bad for her.  I know she's not really traumatized but her mommy is.   Other than that it was a relaxing day at home, paid a visit to my friendly chiropractor and made roast.  Louis had to work because somebody else got sick at work. 

Friday- Louis' day off.  Went to DoubleDave's for lunch.  Selah isn't feeling too well, runny nose.  Big grocery trip planned this afternoon.  Selah's doctor called back and referred us to a specialist.  Everything is normal except for her carbon dioxide output which is low.  Louis is going to a dress rehearsal tonight and tomorrow we'll get to see him walk across the stage as he officially graduates from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary.  I'm really proud of him.  He worked really hard and never neglected me when I needed him.  He balanced school, work, and family beautifully. 

Sunday, May 1, 2011

facebook detox





So I deactivated my account.  I'm tired of it.  I remember when facebook first came out, when it was only open to college students.  I had a myspace at the time but I remember thinking it was clumsy and really needed an overhaul.  My roommate could not stop raving about how great facebook was and I thought, ' Good for you.'  'All our friends are on and you can see their pictures blah blah blah...'  I didn't get it.  Didn't really care honestly.  Then she invited me and I signed up to placate her.  But I was so glad I did because she was right, everybody was on it.  I could talk to all our friends that were all over the place in all their different schools and it was neat getting to see what everybody was up to.  Then fb opened up to the public and then I could REALLY see what everybody was up to.  But honestly, I'm burnt out now.  I think facebook has a lot of positive helpful attributes, don't get me wrong.  I've been able to learn alot from it, helpful links, engaging discussions, stirring quotes, great suggestions from caring friends and family.  But lately, I'm more annoyed then anything else.  I've hidden LOTS of people because I don't care to read what they post.  I don't have the patience to put up with the stupidity, or the ranting or the complaining.  So facebook, it's not you, it's me.  We've had a good 6 year run but I think I need some space.  I'm breaking it off for now but I'll be back when the wind changes, like a 9th grader's relationship status. 

Monday, March 21, 2011

hi stranger

Wow, it's been 2 months since I last blogged.  That's pretty ridiculous.  I think about blogging pretty often actually, and then I think about how behind I am and I get discouraged.  I wanted to blog about Selah's first year, but I'm so behind!  I wanted to document every milestone.  That certainly didn't happen.  Like flylady says, just jump in where you are. 

I've learned to organize my time a little bit better lately thanks to flylady and it's led to an increase in productivity for me.  I've been able to stay on top of housekeeping and that's HUGE for me.  15 minute increments is very doable.  Usually, my perfectionist tendencies overtake me and I get overwhelmed by small tasks.  My house will stay clean for a few days but will get really messy again within a week.  Once I get into the routine of keeping my house clean, I plan on adding exercise into my daily schedule. 

I'm also seeing a chiropractor for lower back pain.  The pain has gotten less tolerable over the last couple of months and I've learned that pain is a flashlight for sin in your heart.  I've been really whiny, angry, and bitter about it.  But changes in my thinking has lead me to keep my attitude in check. 

We've also attended a NANC conference over the past 3 months and it's been SOOO good (most of it).  I've learned a LOT and am excited to pursue it further.  I would recommend it anyone involved in ministry and lay people who want to do more ministry in life.  I feel like I've gotten a lot of tools to further equip me. 

My photography has gotten really busy and I'm working diligently on that.  Despite that fact, I feel like I haven't made much of a dent yet.  I have LOTS and LOTS to learn. 

Those are the highlights.  That's all pretty surface and shallow but it is what it is. 

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

these boots are made for walking. well, sleeping.

I get to wear this sexy baby to bed tonight.  It's a splint for plantar fascitis.  I've had it for awhile now.  It's been under the bed collecting dust waiting for me to use it.  I don't like to use it cause I can't really sleep well in it.  It's not exactly comfortable.  But I figure since I can't sleep anyway, I might as well multitask!